We all need more smiles. I just have to share the short film (16 minutes, 24 seconds) called Validation by Writer/Director/Composer Kurt Kuenne. The film has won many film-festival awards, such as Best Short Comedy at the Breckenridge Festival of Film and Best Short Film & Audience Award at the Heartland Film Festival. Validation is pretty much sure to make you smile. Of course, you should have tissues handy as well.
Validation was published in 2007, but I’ve been in love with it since I first saw it in 2010. I don’t think you can see it too many times. It’s one of my all-time favorite inspirational films!
If you’re familiar with current thoughts on parenting, you’ve heard that we need to encourage rather than praise so that our children will get their reinforcement internally and not become “praise junkies.”
You might even be hesitant to give compliments because of the new research. But I think we need to praise other adults. We grew up with a need for praise, and we’ll be happy to get some validation!
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Bibi says
Great movie. Thank you for sharing it. I always believed in a power of smile.
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Deb Chitwood says
Thanks so much for your kind comment, Bibi! And thanks for following me. I’m on my way to visit your blog now!
patty says
love this idea, the quote…. am big fan of mother theresa!! :))
thanks for visiting… i hope you post something halloween themed and link up this weekend! 🙂
Deb Chitwood says
Thanks, Patty! I’m a big fan of Mother Teresa as well! Your Halloween link-up looks great, but I’ll be busy with Project Smile on Halloween. That’s when the Project Smile link-up is held this month. Have a happy Halloween!
jill conyers says
I’m going to share this video with friends and family 🙂
Deb Chitwood says
Thanks, Jill! I’m such a fan of that video and love to see it shared!
alicia says
What a beautiful film and message. Just what I needed today.
Deb Chitwood says
Thanks so much, Lish! Have a great rest of the day!
Snowcatcher says
I watched this Friday but didn’t have time to leave a comment then. I want you to know it really made a difference in my weekend! I couldn’t help but picture doing the same thing everywhere I went!
Deb Chitwood says
I just love hearing that it made a difference in your weekend! I know what you mean about picturing doing the same thing – I’ve done that, too!
SomeGirl says
Oh, that was a wonderful film! I have tears! Thanks for sharing it! ♥ Michelle
Deb Chitwood says
Thanks, Michelle! That’s an awesome film, isn’t it?!